Thursday, December 29, 2011

sumbang mambang ???

yesterday time maghrib, i see my darling in a towel only in the room checking his phone as usual. there goes my teenager niece come into the room to find my daughter. before she goes in- her papa dah panggil. ajak balik. i also nak tahan her from masuk bilik. but no.. laju jer nak masuk bilik orang. as she enters.. of cos she cud see my darling in this state (only in towel). but as selamber as she is.. dengan penuh selamber jer lepak kat that room. lari la encek darling nak masuk bilik ayor. tapi i already masuk dulu. my niece is in the room. duduk la melepak kat luar dengan only bertowel.
situation maceni cemana nak handle. if i was in his condition.. of coz i alredy yell ' kuar!!!! tak malu ker'. tapi dia.. tak menjerit. my darling biar je. for him - the condition is already awkward but let it not be more awkward.. for me. if it is awkward memang awkward la. get out from my room. i'm not proper dress..
my niece ni. really need sex education and sex awareness.
she does not realise that her action might lead to something not good. too selamber with opposite gender is dangerous even with your siblings/cousins.
parents also have to take action. u know that ur kids are growing. teach them about malu, batas pergaulan..
mandi / buang air tu tutupla pintu.
pakai baju tu tutupla pintu.
pakai baju tu tutupla bahagian yg tak patut ditunjuk orang.
gi toilet buang air.. tanggal/pakaila seluar kat dlm bilik air. ur not toddler anymore. ni depan tv pun nak butt naked. and tak malu berbuat demikian.
tido.. pisahkan.laki dan perempuan.
yg dah naik/mula nampak terutamanya budak umo 6-12 tahun, elokla pakai bra. sports bra. teenage bra.
bergurau- boleh tapi kurangkanla bergurau sesama sendiri dengan melibatkan gurauan fizikal.
kurangkanlah melihat private parts org lain biarpun yg dilihat adalah adik sendiri yg masih baby-walaupun sama jenis. because u'll never know u might like what u see n try something else.
i kno some wud say, my brother/father/uncle is so good to me how cud he do such things to me. or sometimes they wud translate it as a form of kasih sayang. my brother/uncle/father kiss me because he loves me. you'll have to know the batas. u dont kiss ur doter like u kiss ur wife. its WRONG. u dont touch where u shouldn't touch. its WRONG.
and girls..  u shud not trust 100% to men.
baca paper, baca internet dan buat research.
bapak makan anak.
abang makan adik.
adik makan kakak.
pakcik makan anak sedara.
abang tiri/bapak tiri/ adik tiri.. atok, atuk sedara, pakcik x, pakcik y, pakcik teksi, tu lelaki tuh...

kalau citer dot dot dot tu mak makan anak.. (aduiss apa la nak jadi ni)
isteri pulak tak sepatutnya percaya lakinya 100%.

hmmm.. really worried. worried about what my kids will become. hope they will grow fine.also worried about my niece and nephews.. tapi harap2 tade papelah. their fathers are ok what...
takut kalau kat org lain pun terbawa-bawa nak gedik2 -  macam anak2 makcik toot dari pantai timur  itu tergedik2 ngan mr darling. darling pun sama gedik gak. paham. 'macam adek beradek', 'kenal dari kecik', 'i yg pakaikan pampers derang' tapi ko ngan laki aku tu bukan muhrim ye cik gedik. ngaku adek beradek tak menghalalkan pertalian and hormatlah kat bini org ye kalau nak menggedik pun. depan org pun nak gedik. sakit mata je nengok. adekberadek lelaki dia takde pun gedik ngan laki aku. eh meleret plak kat bende lain.

ahh sudahlah membebel tengahari buta ni..buat pening kepala je.

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