5 Minggu 4 hari

5 minggu 4 hari?
begitulah yg tertera di tarikh countdown kat bawah nun sana.
encek darling suruh rekodkan kalini pregnancy apa yg baby ni suka buat dan tgk bila dah kuar betulke mmg dia suka gitu. udah nak bersalin lebih kurang sebulan je lagi baru nak rekodkan. yg pregnancy dulu2 tak rekod pung. haha

tapi memang benar. setiap pregnancy adalah berbeza. beza sikap, beza habit, beza cravings.

this pregnancy:
1. masak. dont know because i have to masak ke sebab terlebih rajin masak ke. tapi memang rajin sikit masak compared to sebelum ni. hakikatnya i memang tak suka masak. kalau ada option lain memang cari option lain. rela pergi kedai dari masak but this time.. masak nasi ayam, mee kungfu, megi, spageti (tu biasa sgt), lauk masak kicap (ayam dan ikan) masak kong boh, masak sup, ntah kenapa rasa makan luar tak syok. pehtu kesian kat budak2 kalau makan luar, tu mcm tade selera, tapi bila mama masak derang punya selera 3/4 periuk(1 pot) je buleh habih kat derang. dasat... breakfast pun. rajin goreng kan bebudak ni nugget. dulu asyik suruh encek darling ni beli roti je. tak roti krim, sapu roti ngan peanut butter.

2. kemas. boleh tahan rajin juga le kemas. tapi malas pun sama naik jugak. tapi lebih rajin dari malas.

3. cravings: no kambing please. really not into kambing and not so fond of meat. no fast food. mcd wont makes me kenyang. really rasa tak berbaloi lepas makan mcd sebab kejap je dah lapo balik. kfc, burger king pung sama. subway je masih buleh tahan lagi. but really likes udang, seafood, sotong, ketam.

4. berat badan. amboi mak.... pehal naik banyak sgt. setat pregnancy dengan lemak biskut raya udah 87 kg. sampai sekarang dah mencecah 103kg. dah naik 16 kg. dengan selulit naik kat kaki, peha ke betis. NGERI!!!! berita ngeri sungguh!. ntah sebab makan ke sebab kuat manis ke. tapi rajin juge exercise skang ni. silapnya masa first 3 month.. melantak apa sahaja yg kita suka. sebab fikirkan nanti lepas bersalin buleh turunkan berat semula.

5. nasty habit. watching videos time office. astaghfirullahalazim.. gaji jalan bodoh je sebab rajin nonton yutiub.

6. kpop all the way. asyik cari dan tonton korea punya product je. lagu kpop, tgk running man. movie korea, sampai masa scan pun baby asyik gerak tangan mcm menari lagu dan dan dan dan dan dance fantastic baby. ye. sebab lagu tu asyik terngiang2 di kepala semasa scan awal2 dulu.

7. very active dan friendly baby. baby, masa ultrasound scan tu sgt tidak segan, asyik berinteraksi depan camera aje. dah le masa scan kat perut tu dia buleh tolak tempat dr scan guna tangan (i see it by my self kat monitor tu) amboi dia.. bukan main lagi.

8. berkat ibu mengandung.. dan dengan izin Allah kadang2 bende yg dirasakan payah, susah, jadi mcm senang je. contoh nya drive balik ke rumah, cari parking depan kedai md chan(paling susah nak dpt parking situ.. dpt parking betul2 dekat depan kedai). parking pasar malam betul2 depan pintu masuk.. alhamdulillah... ) tayar pancit akibat kecuaian sendiri termasuk lane tepi yg lebih tepi dari tepi sebab mengelak lori dan moto. hakikatnya patut berile laluan kat moto tu. kesian dia. kena himpit lori/kereta. tapi aku tamak masa tu sebab teringat nak balik rumah ngan cepat sebab nak ke PD lepas tu. menunggu encek darling ditepi jalan tak sampai2 tapi alhamdulillah ada pertolongan dari org DUKE.

9. pregnancy symptom: alhamdulillah tade mabuk tapi... tangan ada sakit dan kebas juge. dr kata carpal tunnel syndrom. perasan sakit masa tgh drive keta bapak kat PD. rasa tak sedap bila genggam stereng. dan sejak dari itu sakit je. alhamdulillah dah masuk minggu 34  ni sakit tade tapi kebas masih ada kadang2.

10. pregnancy symptom 2: perut ni mcm beso beno. sakit bahagian ari2 tu sentiasa ada. especially lepas bangun dari tempat duduk kat opis, bangun dari tido, uhhhh sakit le.

11. garang. garang betul. asyik nak cari gaduh je masa mula2 dulu. pehhtu sarcastic. pehtu lasik. eh laser.. laser dan laju je nak bubuh kat org. sabar2.. jgn ikut perasaan...

lagi? masa pregnan dulu2 ada feveret food, afiq ngan A&W, spageti, pasta, masa zarin suka TVD dan asik gatal je, yg ni? overall sgt rajin jadi pompuan~ maksudnya..  rajin masak, kemas, mekap, berhias,

ni tgh mencari method yg sesuai utk senang beranak, terjumpa natural birthing club/grup kat fb. omaigaddd!!! wat the f am i luking at? video org beranak secara natural. oh maiiii.. i dont want to see. even tho dia promote bersalin secara natural without induce dan ubat-ubatan, mai gadd.. baby come out directly in front of camera. dan ada yg boleh mencapai orgasm masa beranak? how do they do that? depa suruh enjoy dan layan je sakit waktu beranak . ouch. beranak. caranya? hypnosis. relax, stay calm, jgn dengor sorakan dari nurse, jgn push bila org suruh push. listen to your body. ibaratnya gini kita nak berak, tapi tade perasaan tapi org suruh gi berak juga. wajib. maka berak itu menjadi susah dan berbelit2. dah sampai time berak, ia akan kuar sendiri tanpa perlu kita push too hard,  ok so moral of the story. even tho makan julab pun (induce) bila rasa urge nak kuar baru teran. jgn takut. jgn ada perasaan cuak. just go with the flow.
insya allah i can do it!!

mama@34 weeks

senangnya mudahnya bagi sesetengah orang

senangnya bagi sesetengah orang untuk buat anak, mengandung, dan melahirkan baby.
zusss, dass-lekat, wooshhh-keluar. haha.. ade ke cenggitu senang...
myself.. going thru a hard time.
6 pregnancy.
3 dnc.
1 gugur sendiri.
2 je yang baru jadi setakat ini. (alhamdulillah)

afiq: exactly @1 hour 

for me, first 3 month is a very critical moment. sebab first 3 month tu yg penentu baby sihat ke tak. boleh continue ke tak.  first month tade rasa apa2.. except conscious why my period hasn't come yet. sebenarnya 1 hari lewat pun dah mcm huru hara. eh pregnant ke. hati tu sentiasa je tertanya-tanya. perasaan bercampur-campur. nafsu plak-beli je pregnancy test. pehtu berpusing-pusing.. nak beli kat mana. bila nak beli? nak gi amik budak lagi. sebenarnya bila hari menjelang petang ayat nak pergi amik budak tu sentiasa bermain di kepala. terbayang kesukaran lalu depan sekolah kalau time amik tu lambat. all the unnecessary things semua bermain di fikiran.  iklan..  pehtu bila dah beli pregnancy test pikir plak bila nak guna ni? all the small things.. bende tu pun nak pikir lama2 ke? pakai. test . dapat result. 2 line yippppiee!!!! 1 line.. menunggu kot tiba2 line yg satu lagi tu tiba2 muncul. heheh..
penah sekali tu test petang ada tapi mcm tade. pehtu tak sure lagi beli lagi 2-3 hari kemudian.. tgk2 memang tade. tapi masa 2-3 hari sebelum tu feeling nauseous, nak muntah mcm2 feeling org pregnant sume dah ada. tapi bila that month tu dah period perasaan org mengandung tu tiba2 tade.
kan best kalau time tu kita nak mengandung terus je dapat bulan tu juga dan mengharungi hari pregnant-ke-tidak tanpa perasaan tertanya-tanya.
kan bes kalau dapat mengandung tanpa hati rasa gelisah whether the baby is going to survive this two months. (sebab ikutkan lepas bulan ke3 baru rasa lega tempoh penalti dah tamat.. tapi 6 month onwards usually an ok period)
kan bes kalau perasaan trauma terhadap dnc tu tiada lagi. trauma kalau baby tak jadi kena buat lagi dnc.
teruknya perasaan ni.
org lain tu lagi kesian.. cuba-cuba-cuba tak lekat.
cuba-cuba tak lekat
cuba-tak lekat.
ada yg dah lima tahun baru dapat,
10 tahun,
redha je lah apa saja. yg ni lah yg terbaik buat masa sekarang.
skang mencuba tetapi tidak mengharap sebab harapannya besar untuk menurunkan lagi 7 kg. baru matlamat tercapai..
harap dapat pergi ke berat 70-an.....
dan kalau boleh ke 60-an semula.. kalau boleh la. gigih. giat. berusaha! you can do it!

Baby’s First Year: How Infants Develop

From helpless newborn to active toddler: It takes just 12 short months for your baby to undergo this incredible transformation. Babies grow and change at an astounding pace, and every month brings new and exciting developments.

New moms and dads often wonder what to expect next and how to know if their baby’s development is on target. Instead of focusing too much on developmental milestones, however, it’s important to remember that babies all develop at their own pace. There’s a fairly wide “window” for when it is normal for a baby to reach a particular developmental stage.

“If your baby reaches one milestone sooner, she may reach another one later, because she’s so busy perfecting the other skill,” says Jennifer Shu, MD, pediatrician and co-author of Heading Home with Your Newborn.

Some babies may say their first word at eight months, while others don’t talk until a little after the one-year mark. And walking may start anytime between nine and 18 months.

Keeping those kinds of variations in mind, here’s what your baby may be doing during each three-month stage of the first year.

Baby Development: One to Three Months

During this first development stage, babies’ bodies and brains are learning to live in the outside world. Between birth and three months, your baby may start to:

• Smile. Early on, it will be just to herself. But within three months, she’ll be smiling in response to your smiles and trying to get you to smile back at her.
• Raise her head and chest when on her tummy.
• Track objects with her eyes.
• Open and shut her hands and bring hands to her mouth.
• Grip objects in her hands.
• Take swipes at or reach for dangling objects, though she usually won’t be able to get them yet.

Baby Development: Four to Six Months

During these months, babies are really learning to reach out and manipulate the world around them. They’re mastering the use of those amazing tools, their hands. And they’re discovering their voices. From 4 to 6 months old, your baby will probably:
• Roll over from front to back or back to front. Front-to-back usually comes first.
• Babble, making sounds that can sound like real language.
• Laugh.
• Reach out for and grab objects (watch out for your hair), and manipulate toys and other objects with her hands.
• Sit up with support.

Baby Development: Seven to Nine Months

During the second half of this year, your little one becomes a baby on the go. After learning that he can get somewhere by rolling over, he’ll spend the next few months figuring out how to move forward or backward. If you haven’t baby-proofed yet, better get on it!

• During this time period, your baby may:
• Start to crawl. This can include scooting (propelling around on his bottom) or “army crawling” (dragging himself on his tummy by arms and legs), as well as standard crawling on hands and knees. Some babies never crawl, moving directly to from scooting to walking.
• Sit without support.
• Respond to familiar words like his name. He may also respond to “no” by briefly stopping and looking at you.
• Clap and play games such as patty-cake and peekaboo.
• Learn to pull up to a standing position.

Baby Development: 10 to 12 Months

The last development stage in baby’s first year is quite a transition. She isn’t an infant anymore, and she might look and act more like a toddler. But she’s still a baby in many ways. She’s learning to:

• Begin feeding herself. Babies at this developmental stage master the “pincer grasp“ -- meaning they can hold small objects such as O-shaped cereal between their thumb and forefinger.
• Cruise, or move around the room on her feet while holding onto the furniture.
• Say one or two words. The average is about three spoken words by the first birthday, but the range on this is enormous.
• Point at objects she wants in order to get your attention.
• Begin “pretend play” by copying you or using objects correctly, such as pretending to talk on the phone.
• Take her first steps. This usually happens right around one year, but it can vary greatly.

Your Baby’s Development: When to Talk to a Pediatrician

What should you do if you think your baby is not meeting growth or development milestones when he should? First, says Shu, trust your instincts. “If you really feel like something’s wrong, then talk to your doctor about it because if there is a problem, we want to catch it as soon as we can," she says. "Early intervention is best, and you know your child better than anyone.”

Remember, however, that it is not exactly when your baby sits up by himself or says his first words that is important; it’s that he’s moving forward in his development. “Don’t look at the time as much as the progression, and see that your child is changing and growing,” says Shu. “It’s not a race. Nobody’s going to ask on a college application when your child first walked or said ‘da-da.’”

Your Child’s Development -- Month by Month

This table shows common developmental milestones that babies reach each month during their first year, in four major categories. Keep in mind that all babies are different and every baby grows at his own pace. There's no precise time that most of these skills first appear. If your child hasn’t reached a milestone by the month it is listed on this chart, it is usually a perfectly normal variation in child development. Watch for progress, not deadlines.

	Gross Motor	Fine Motor	Language/ Cognitive	Social
1 month	Moves head from side to side when on stomach	Strong grip	Stares at hands and fingers	Tracks movement with eyes
2 months	Holds head and neck up briefly while on tummy	Opens and closes hands	Begins to play with fingers	Smiles responsively
3 months	Reaches and grabs at objects	Grips objects in hands	Coos	Imitates you when you stick out your tongue
4 months	Pushes up on arms when lying on tummy	Grabs objects -- and gets them!	Laughs out loud	Enjoys play and may cry when playing stops
5 months	Begins to roll over in one or the other direction	Is learning to transfer objects from one hand to the other	Blows “raspberries” (spit bubbles)	Reaches for mommy or daddy and cries if they’re out of sight
6 months	Rolls over both ways	Uses hands to “rake” small objects	Babbles	Recognizes familiar faces --caregivers and friends as well as family
7 months	Moves around --is starting to crawl, scoot, or “army crawl”	Is learning to use thumb and fingers	Babbles in a more complex way	Responds to other people’s expressions of emotion
8 months	Sits well without support	Begins to clap hands	Responds to familiar words, looks when you say his name	Plays interactive games like peekaboo
9 months	May try to climb/crawl up stairs	Uses the pincer grasp	Learns object permanence -- that something exists even if he can’t see it	Is at the height of stranger anxiety
10 months	Pulls up to stand	Stacks and sorts toys	Waves bye-bye and/or lifts up arms to communicate “up”	Learns to understand cause and effect (“I cry, Mommy comes”)
11 months	Cruises, using furniture	Turns pages while you read	Says “mama” or “dada” for either parent	Uses mealtime games (dropping spoon, pushing food away) to test your reaction; expresses food preferences
12 months	Stands unaided and may take first steps	Helps while getting dressed (pushes hands into sleeves)	Says an average of 2-3 words (often “mama” and “dada”)	Plays imitative games such as pretending to use the phone

By Gina Shaw
WebMD Feature

Announcing our newborn Nur Zarin Azizah

Our newborn baby was born on 29 September 2010. 3.05 kg, 48cm long, 10.37am

She is very beautiful i was able to breastfeed her on the first few hours after born. i was worried that she is being given fm sehinggakan doc suruh stay another night kat wad pun i decline.

i was warded on tuesday nite. and was given an oral induce that nite.

my first contraction actually started on sunday lagi.. right after makan breakfast at mcd. after makan terus gi klinik. actually i dont think it is as a contraction because it only felt like a period cramp. takpela.. gi check then the midwife seluk.. very harsh one. eventho i oredi had the experience but the pain still terasa macam baru.

well.. mak bidan said go home la baru 2cm, dr pun gi beraya.

hari ahad tu besday ayah. my baby doesn't wanna share her birthday with others. haha. gud for u. sampai ke malam tade apa2. n sempat lagi gi makan celebrate besday ayah kat restoren chan.

monday.

pagi-pagi lagi i oredi walk to kohilal. bapak menemankan. konon2 nak bagi senang beranak. check kat dr. tade apa2 pun. masa dr check openingnyer baru 1 cm. (tangan dr panjang, tangan mak bidan pendek). so dapat different result la. dr kata kalau tade apa2 until tomorow.. come back tomorrow nite. sebab duenye 29.

yep. baby still wanna stay inside.

tuesday.

felt nothing. no cramp. tapi makan macam2 orang kata nak bagi senang bersalin. i never eat bendi.. terung.. kali ini i ate. tengahari sempat gi open office bintang fadzilat.

tuesday nite.

9.00pm

bawak afiq jalan2 cari aiskrim. singgah umah tok ali. mintak blessing.

9.30pm (aiyaa missed la plak cerita vampire diaries! uhuhu)

gi kohilal. admitted. oral induce. sakit nak bersalin? mcm nak period cramp adala..

dua jam sekali terjaga sebab terasa perut cramp. rasa nak bersalin? ntah. tak rasa sakit mcm dulu pung..

wednesday

2 am

turun ke labor room. check gak. bukaan tak de perubahan pun. tak tambah-tambah. dr kata lepas subuh nanti turun semula.

naik balik ke bilik. tido. zzzzzzz....

6.30 am

setelah mandi pagi. yelar kan nanti kul bape lak nak mandi pagi nanti, makan bekfas sikit. makan ruti sikit, kurma sikit, ayor kembang kak timah sikit. pehtu turun semula ke labor room.

masuk air kat tangan + masuk ubat induce kat dlm air tu.

8.am

dah ada perasaan sakit sikit. ada progress sikit

9 - 10am

makin sakit dan kerap. dan.. asyik kentut aje. yg kelakornye 15 min sakit. kentut. pehtu hilang sakit. pehtu kentut lagi. dan kentut lagi. sabo jela darling ye.. mak bidan datang dan pergi.

disebabkan sakit tak melawan, layan je flow sakit tu, tak ku panggil pun mak bidan tersebut.

mak tepon pun rasa tak terlayan suda. tgh melayan rasa sakit itu.

10.15am-10.40am

dah sangat kerap. dah buka 7. dan tak terhingga rasa nak teran. picit butang. kelam kabut mak bidan datang. and dr pung kelam kabut naik atas( dari klinik ke labor room)

1st push- tak jadi.

2nd push - eh salah teknik la. pi hembus napas lak.

3rd push - tak jadi.

ntah push yg keempat ke yg kelima ke... pause kejap. minum air selusuh yang tok mamak buat and makan kurma. then after that.. push dan keluar lil zarin.

alhamdulillah..

10.40am-11.30am

membersih diri dan dijahit kasar sikit. dah jahit pun gi seluk lagi sebab ada uri lagi yg tertinggal. aiseh doktor.

sakit la.

12.pm lapo la.. darling sebuk melayan kawan/family yang datang sambil tengok baby. terdengar sore mereka itu.

1 pm bila la derang nak bagi makan..

1 lebih lebih.. baru dapat makanan..

2 pm baru dapat susukan baby. tapi kekok la sikit. jadi tak reti aje.

2.30 gitu2 dah bangun dari katil beranak untuk naik ke atas bilik. siap kena marah ngan dokter sebab nak bangun tapi tak panggil nurse.

(ye la.. kot pengsan ke lepas bangun tu.. )

2.30 gitu2 gak. mak, apak, afiq, wan, makcik, pakcik, durah, iman, datang ke bilik.

3 lebih.. tanya dr, boleh balik rumah tak?

punyala nak breastfeed punya pasal, sebab bilik and bilik nursery jauh. takut derang malas nak hantar baby.. bagi susu formula je. aisehh. boleh.. tunggu check baby dulu.

4 lebih.. atok ali, nenek ros, cicik, ayah cik, datang lagi sekali. (tadi dtg tgk baby je, skang baru melawat orang yg bersalin). tanya plak kat nurse.

' boleh ke balik harini?'.

nurse kata seelok-eloknya rehat la dulu.

5-6 lebih.. bersiap nak balik. tekad! kang dibaginya anak aku minum susu botol. org dah la berkobar-kobar nak breast feed ni. plus.. kena charge tambahan 1 malam lagi. teruk la kena membayornye.

6 lebih.. baby zarin selamat sampai ke rumah atok zubir. officially driven by tok ali. (seronok dedua atok)

then bermulalah kehidupan seorang baby cute hidung terletak! (opah su kata) yang bernama Nur Zarin Azizah bt Azli.

nur- cahaya.

zarin - keemasan.

azizah - kemuliaan.

remembering the late opah azizah. alfatihah.